When in doubt… Friday June 2, 2006
Posted by chukwu in Otros, Personlig.1 comment so far
I was reading an entry of a friend of mine this morning.
I told her I'd post something about it but it's now half past six when I start to write about it.
Of course, this is just my opinion.
I say, when in doubt ask questions. Directly to the person involved.
This way things are cleared up quickly.
Especially in relationships. It's difficult to have any room for misinterpretation when it comes to relationships. Just ask the person and clear everything up. Make it clear. Unless you're afraid, that is.
Right now I fear some things. It's actually frustrating because I told mysel that I would take more risks and not fear things like this. But come to think of it, I still fear it. Losing a friendship over a failed love.
But if you and another person had a relationship and broke up, you may actually still have feelings for the person. Even if you've told yourself and the entire world that you don't. Deep down inside you, when you're alone and thinking, you still love the person.
I believe you still do. And you will never cease to. If the love was real in the first place.
So you just have to accept that you still love the person and that you are no longer together. You still have that special connection no matter what happens.
After all, it was unconditional love (hopefully) in the first place.
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